Polyamory and Communication
Feb. 24th, 2003 10:24 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
beandelphikiSo evidently, things were not going quite as well as I thought they were. Mer...should probably not say too much.
But one of my primary concerns when this started was that NOBODY felt neglected, and maybe I lost sight of that because it seemed okay for such a stretch.
Been thinking about communication and how far away I am, and how I depend on what I'm told...and that I have to believe that if I'm told it's okay, it's okay. And if it's not, I'll be told that too.
And thinking about how words mean so much to me, and how confusing it would be to be told that something I was told earlier wasn't even true at the time. Which wouldn't make sense to me.
Not saying that was the situation. It was just a thought.
But one of my primary concerns when this started was that NOBODY felt neglected, and maybe I lost sight of that because it seemed okay for such a stretch.
Been thinking about communication and how far away I am, and how I depend on what I'm told...and that I have to believe that if I'm told it's okay, it's okay. And if it's not, I'll be told that too.
And thinking about how words mean so much to me, and how confusing it would be to be told that something I was told earlier wasn't even true at the time. Which wouldn't make sense to me.
Not saying that was the situation. It was just a thought.
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Re: p.s.
Date: 2003-02-25 08:03 am (UTC)Although...I was afraid yesterday that if I replied to this we'd be going back and forth in comments on who's responsibility/fault it was. Ugh.
Anyway...this seems to be a bad day to try commenting better, given that I'm going to be spending half of it in a theatre nowhere near a comp, listening to a presentation on how not to drop a light on someone's head from 40 feet up. (Kidding...)
So...I thought I'd say some stuff that I always forget to bring up in chat.
1) The eyes on my icon (the one my sister drew) are like that because they're kinda anime. Not really, but kinda. My sister was (and is still) hugely into anime when she drew this...practically everything she draws has that influence.
2)Um...oh, yeah. If there's theatre abbreviations that I'm using that you don't understand, just ask and I'll explain 'em.
3) Does haleth get comments by email, or should I alert her if there's something I want her to see?
I guess that's all I can come up with at the moment.
Oh....yeah. Can't chat tonight, regardless of Herb's condition. I really need to sleep. Mom flipped on me again this morning because she is starting to have to pound on my door for almost 45 minutes every morning before I wake up.
Okay. Gotta go now.
*smooch* *snoggle*
*love*
(F)
Re: p.s.
Date: 2003-02-25 10:10 am (UTC)ok on the commenting. I really don't want you to have to be running back and forth to a lab or anything. Just... if you happen to be in the area.
Oh, and if there's something that you don't want to comment back and forth about... maybe you could. write... *nods* maybe we can discuss this more in chat or something... just a thought.
*hugs you and kisses you*
1) that's cool about the picture. Although... I'm kinda scared to meet your sister, now, given what you've said about her trying to embarrass you and all. Not scared for me... just, that I'll give her a lot of "ammunition" for the future... Maybe... um.. and this sounds kinda stupid... but maybe I shouldn't meet her at all? Or she should never know about me?
I'm kinda afraid that she'll say something to your dad and get him all pissed, or something... um.. y'know? *holds you*
2) Ok I will. I do get a lot of them, because I tried to read up on the subject a little in the past... um... *cough*notastalker*cough**cough*
3) Yah, she does, as far as I know. She's um.... not really any better at commenting back as.. um.. other people. ;)
Oh, and cool on the chat. I really need to hit the gym, bad. Sorry about your mom..
Um... probably can't chat again until Friday, I think. Because of the gym. I'm sad about that... but ok in a way, because I don't want to shortchange your school or your homework.
*holds you close*
*kisses you tenderly*
*nuzzles your neck*
*melts on you*
*licks your kitty arm*
oh!
surray...
;)
I love you (L)
me
Why?
Date: 2003-02-25 08:18 pm (UTC)I get comments in email, if they're addressed to me. Have I missed commenting on something I should have? :-O
(((Dan)))
Re: Why?
Date: 2003-02-25 10:09 pm (UTC)