Oh, I forgot:
In our last session, when Dr. Y and I were talking about anxiety, she was asking me why I didn't think I was anxious, etc.
I said, "I don't know what stress feels like."
She took off her glasses. "Well, that's a valid question." (Although it wasn't a question.) "Do you ever feel like your stomach is tensed up or tight?"
I thought about that very carefully, and then nodded. Yes, I suppose it does sometimes.
"Do you feel hot? Or cold?"
Hmm. Yes, sometimes. I nodded carefully to that, too.
"Well, that's anxiety!" She put her glasses back on. Topic must be finished.
"But that's physical!" I protested.
She gave me a bunch of lines about the mind and body being connected, but I wasn't exactly convinced.
Anger "feels" like something other than being tense and hot. Sadness "feels" like something other than a pain in my chest or lethargy. Stress doesn't feel like....anything.
Am I bonkers? Doesn't emotion have a "feel" to it, other than what you can see happening in your body?
In our last session, when Dr. Y and I were talking about anxiety, she was asking me why I didn't think I was anxious, etc.
I said, "I don't know what stress feels like."
She took off her glasses. "Well, that's a valid question." (Although it wasn't a question.) "Do you ever feel like your stomach is tensed up or tight?"
I thought about that very carefully, and then nodded. Yes, I suppose it does sometimes.
"Do you feel hot? Or cold?"
Hmm. Yes, sometimes. I nodded carefully to that, too.
"Well, that's anxiety!" She put her glasses back on. Topic must be finished.
"But that's physical!" I protested.
She gave me a bunch of lines about the mind and body being connected, but I wasn't exactly convinced.
Anger "feels" like something other than being tense and hot. Sadness "feels" like something other than a pain in my chest or lethargy. Stress doesn't feel like....anything.
Am I bonkers? Doesn't emotion have a "feel" to it, other than what you can see happening in your body?
(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-28 04:51 am (UTC)maybe it's not the same kind of thing as sadness or anger?
(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-28 04:54 am (UTC)maybe it's not the same kind of thing as sadness or anger?
Even more "primitive" than those, maybe?
(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-28 04:59 am (UTC)i mean, i get worried or upset or whatever in the usual amount, but they don't correlate with the anxiety... it's more like the anxiety happens when i don't have a productive response to whatever emotions i am having--if i don't recognize the emotions, or if i bottle them up, or if i refuse to deal with them...
(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-28 05:54 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-28 06:27 am (UTC)(p.s i'm just sitting down to read my friends thread I"m sorry I havn't looked at any recent posts, or really old posts with in the last month,Yet, I promise I shall post more. Also i'm glad she finally got back to you)
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Date: 2005-11-28 07:50 am (UTC)I know that I'm stressed when I see physical effects like insomnia, bowel problems, and migraines. I may not "feel" stressed, but I can see the effects, and that's when I need to examine what may be causing those effects (Oh, yeah, I had a fight with Danny yesterday; my body's reacting now... hmm, I'm worried about the test tomorrow; maybe that's why I'm not sleeping; etc.).
(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-28 11:05 am (UTC)Stress, though, has a definite physical component to it via the sympathetic nervous system.
this link regarding Stress seems to have a decent layout of it.