Happiness is tying shoes
Jul. 16th, 2003 03:08 amI have a new CD. It's "You're a Good Man, Charlie Brown." The musical, a 1999 version. One of my favorite casts.
So I'm listening to the song "Happiness," and there's this lyric in there:
Happiness...[is] tying your shoe for the very first time.
And it made me remember ( the first time I tied my own shoes )
So I was thinking about kids I might have someday.
Because I'm transsexual, they are not going to be my bio kids. They'll have to be someone else's bio kids. And I have some issues about this that have been bothering me lately.
But who cares? It suddenly hit me that no matter where my kid comes from, or what they're like, it must be such a joyous thing to watch your kid learn to tie their shoes. And I wondered how a future kid of mine might go about doing it.
Would they be the type to do it somewhat sloppily, but quickly in the rush to get places, do things, tripping over their laces for years before they got it right? Would they be the sober type that only did things very precisely, and got laces-tying down well? Would they be the type that struggles and struggles with such miniature maneuvers, so the final result is such a triumphant one?
That question, compared to all my concerns.
Some things are just not as important in the grand scheme of things.
So I'm listening to the song "Happiness," and there's this lyric in there:
Happiness...[is] tying your shoe for the very first time.
And it made me remember ( the first time I tied my own shoes )
So I was thinking about kids I might have someday.
Because I'm transsexual, they are not going to be my bio kids. They'll have to be someone else's bio kids. And I have some issues about this that have been bothering me lately.
But who cares? It suddenly hit me that no matter where my kid comes from, or what they're like, it must be such a joyous thing to watch your kid learn to tie their shoes. And I wondered how a future kid of mine might go about doing it.
Would they be the type to do it somewhat sloppily, but quickly in the rush to get places, do things, tripping over their laces for years before they got it right? Would they be the sober type that only did things very precisely, and got laces-tying down well? Would they be the type that struggles and struggles with such miniature maneuvers, so the final result is such a triumphant one?
That question, compared to all my concerns.
Some things are just not as important in the grand scheme of things.