And another thing...

[beandelphiki]

Just a thought:

All those transguys who get pissed about people who will sleep with/date a transguy and not a bio guy...

Why do so many also get pissed at transguys who don't want to date QUEER women?!?

I mean, hel-LO.

At least I'M consistent.

Comments

[poopsmoothie.livejournal.com]

I know a straight transguy who's dating a queer woman. I'm not EVEN clear on how they're managing THAT mindfuck.

[siegeengine.livejournal.com]

I... don't get it.
why would a transguy date a queer woman anyway?

I guess that was your point.

And what... ok. I'm starting to figure it out.
I'm slow. :P

but Yay! for consistency. :)
*hugs*
(sorry to be spamming your inbox)

[beandelphiki.livejournal.com]

I would never consider it spam. But...heh. *tries to keep up with flood of comments* *starting with the easiest*

There are actually a lot of transguys who date queer women, and a lot of queer women who want to date trans guys (but not bio men.) Some of it is relationships "left over" (well, not really, but you know what I mean) after the guy came out. That one I'm not going to touch.

It's queer women who look to date transguys and vice versa that give me the willies. I got into a small flamewar in the ftm community once with this woman who called all straight transguys "jerks." Um...hello? And she's dating ftms. So we had a fight, called each other names...blah, blah. I'm sure she's even more convinced all straight transmen are jerks, but I don't care. I wouldn't sleep with her in a million years. :P

There's just a lot of comments out there like that, about how transguys who ID as "hetero" are all macho assholes. It really pisses me off.

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[siegeengine.livejournal.com]

wow.. that is... not at all what I expected.

Strange how people, even when they're supposedly loosely grouped in the same "community" can still be so mean and discriminatory toward each other.

*shakes head*