Ah, it was in sex_and_race somewhere, about white members being a pain (no new news there, I gather they still have issues with that).
I was ashamed and frustrated over my comments, and the fact that I'd agreed to your comments (which I realized were problematic), so I left because I couldn't/wasn't ready to resolve it just then, and it wasn't fair to the members there.
Sorry to say, that's my strongest memory of you. Makes it a bit hard to take you seriously; the first thing that comes to mind is me at one of my worst moments agreeing with you when you were mistepping even more.
And then I saw you comment to dysgr8mystake that she was LYING, she'd actually been BANNED, etc.
Although I suppose (I'm thinking out loud now), you went to let her know she was banned as a mod. She would have found out eventually if she'd tried to re-apply, but I guess letting her know immediately is fair.
Posting it publicly was still sort of petty, in my opinion, but whatever. I retract the comment about trolling.
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Date: 2006-04-15 06:17 am (UTC)I was ashamed and frustrated over my comments, and the fact that I'd agreed to your comments (which I realized were problematic), so I left because I couldn't/wasn't ready to resolve it just then, and it wasn't fair to the members there.
Sorry to say, that's my strongest memory of you. Makes it a bit hard to take you seriously; the first thing that comes to mind is me at one of my worst moments agreeing with you when you were mistepping even more.
And then I saw you comment to dysgr8mystake that she was LYING, she'd actually been BANNED, etc.
Although I suppose (I'm thinking out loud now), you went to let her know she was banned as a mod. She would have found out eventually if she'd tried to re-apply, but I guess letting her know immediately is fair.
Posting it publicly was still sort of petty, in my opinion, but whatever. I retract the comment about trolling.