It's a bit hard to understand a tone in text unless it is specifically pointed out.

It just seems to me that you are AFRAID of being gay, not only being perceived as such. That's where my problem is coming. I realize that there are people that are afraid of being perceived of being straight when they are gay, but I don't know if it's the same thing as being afraid of BEING straight.

That's where my beef comes. I wasn't taking it as a personal diss towards my sexuality, that has nothing to do with the commment.